This weekend I got told off by a Domme who perceives that I am not serious about TTWD. She was rude and made me extremely angry -- but she also forced me to ask myself if I am actually here, here in FetLife, here in the lifestyle.In the course of this year, what have I done?In FetLife: lurked and read mostly, posting now and then. Friended a few people, was de-friended by one or twoIn SL: spent...

What a great meeting we had last week! Our topic was "Self Esteem", something many of us struggle with. Below is a synopsis of what we discussed, and then....a dare, for any submissives who are struggling with a low self-esteem. Simply put, self esteem is your opinion of yourself. Your self-esteem affects how you think, act and even how you relate to other people. It allows you to live life to your...

I want to thank everyone that came out to the group discussion last night. We covered a lot of topics and really had a good time discussing issues with each other. One topic that came up that I believe is such an important concept within the lifestyle was self control. Quite often as submissives we...