For some time I observed relationships online and in world both from an outsider perspective [listening to others talk about their experiences] and from an insider perspective [dating, collared, partnered, handfasted].  The one common element appears to be "speed", the rapidity with...

At this week's sub mission meeting, I introduced the concept of the submissive/slave resume. I stumbled across the topic while doing some research and thought it was an exercise that could have a positive effect. At the end of this post, I will post some links to other submissive/slave blogs that have either done a resume or discussed one, so that you can look at it yourself. So here are my thoughts...

For those of you that are still following us here at the sub Missions blog, I wanted to give you quick update. The discussion group is still going strong, though I (teara) was away on vacation the last few weeks. You will find summertime to be a time that Second Life is a little quieter, the warmer weather (at least in North America) draws people away from their computers and into something they call...

This weekend I got told off by a Domme who perceives that I am not serious about TTWD. She was rude and made me extremely angry -- but she also forced me to ask myself if I am actually here, here in FetLife, here in the lifestyle.In the course of this year, what have I done?In FetLife: lurked and read mostly, posting now and then. Friended a few people, was de-friended by one or twoIn SL: spent...

What a great meeting we had last week! Our topic was "Self Esteem", something many of us struggle with. Below is a synopsis of what we discussed, and then....a dare, for any submissives who are struggling with a low self-esteem. Simply put, self esteem is your opinion of yourself. Your self-esteem affects how you think, act and even how you relate to other people. It allows you to live life to your...

I want to thank everyone that came out to the group discussion last night. We covered a lot of topics and really had a good time discussing issues with each other. One topic that came up that I believe is such an important concept within the lifestyle was self control. Quite often as submissives we...

We had a fantastic turn out to the meeting last night. The discussion was fantastic and I hope empowering for everyone. I will add more later, however this morning I am posting so I can let go. Every morning for the last several months, I sent an email to my former Master. It was rarely anything long or earth shattering. It was a way for both of U/us to start the day feeling Dominant and submissive....